These months have been busy and hellish!!!

Fancy that???? I thought November and December months would mean PEACE from the two famous trouble makers???? Ummm...NOT!!!!!!!!!!!

Ray has been out of a job since August 2008 till November 2008. Getting money from me and Gene. NO HELP FROM HIS MOTHER, she gave him $20 and that was it!!! WTF!!!
Your own biological mother not helping you and yet your step mother is helping you???!!!

Dont get me wrong, I dont mind helping Ray when he is always strapped for cash, she would give off the cuff snide remarks about me wanting to "override" her motherly duties, OMG...pulleeeeese as if I am going to snatch her 3 sons away from her, and make her look bad like she is a lousy mother...yeah, in true reality SHE IS A LOUSY MOTHER!!!

She has NO LOVE for her sons, never backed them up emotionally or financially help out...she sucks up to her idiotic husband's two teenage children MORE than her own sons, her own flesh and blood.

Sooo ridiculous!!! Pushing her reponsibilities to me and Gene, she would say "Well, its YOUR JOB to take care of the boys" What does that mean???? It is "NOT HER JOB" to take care of the boys"???!!! So, again, what is REALLY "HER JOB" then?.......probably her definitely of "her job" is to GIVE BIRTH thats all...stupid fat cow!!!

We had Thanksgiving and Gene Junior's birthday was around the same time as Thanksgiving. It has been EVERY YEAR since DAY 1 after Gene and that Creature divorced back in 1995. She HAS NEVER COOKED for festive or even on seasonal periods. Pushing the boys to eat at our home.

Its not a problem for us, in fact, we like the idea that the boys spent their time with us, it just IRKES me to think she cant even be bothered to make something for her sons, before sending them over to us.

Its at DAD's PLACE for Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year's

She is very cunning, as you know why, firstly, she does not need to cook, she can save money by not doing anything for her sons, she pushed all to us, and then, she and that idiot goes to friends' house to eat. The previous years, she made her parents drive 17 hours to see her just to cook Thanksgiving dinner for her and her husband, what kind of a human being would do that???!!! You tell me.

Moochers, like her eldest son, Ray, he learn the Moocher ropes from the mother, he lies when he is confronted. We knew that, he spend money on drinking and smoking!

What can we do...he is already 19 years old, an adult in this country, we can only talk to him, it is really entirely up to him to realize and changed for the better. If he doesnt, then thats too bad for him.

We are NOT going to be sucked into his sh**load of problems, bailing his butt everytime he is in a rut, not fair to us in the end.

His mother does not care to help him, so what does he do then, he come and asks us for financial help.

We payed for his haircut, his move to next state, I got him a job in December 2008 for a seasonal job delivery parcels. Plus, paying the rent for his new apartment there. Right now, I am going to find him a job in the other state so that he can survive and take care of himself, which, to me, he does not know how to.

A natural born problem creator, not a problem solver, in my personal opinion, like the mother, and like the son.

Christmas is the same also, we spent so much money on him alone, and on top of that, bought him a gift. He loves to snack. And he gets cold easily, we got him a nice fleece blanket.

His brothers, we bought video games, as usual, the second son, wanted an Apple IPhone, we got him that, and paid a bundle for it, almost losing an arm and a leg to get that phone for him! :) Just kidding...that stupid woman called me to ask whether we are going to buy the phone for him or not...you know WHY, right????

Yes....she does not want to pay for it, and pushed us to buy it for him, instead of her.

Cheap, cunning, stupid...all the degoratory remarks she is the TOP of the list...haha..

We feel nothing but disgust and disappointment when it comes to her.