Happy New Year 2009!!!

I trust you all have a great time ushering in the New Year's?

Yeaaah, we did, Gene and I had a great time toasting the bubblies (champagne), and had seafood dinner at home. Gene cooked for the occasion.

Well, that witch dared not talk to Gene when they met to drop the boys off with her.

The boys spent Christmas with us (without fail). She called me to tell me that she has plans to visit her parents for the New Year's and she wanted the boys there also.

No problem for us. Since her eldest "pet" Ray, is moving out on 2nd January back to her state, she should be diliriously happy, she LOVES TO BE IN CONTROL. Well, good luck to Ray and her, back like old times...at the back of my mind, I know for a fact, she will call me, to ask money, in the pretext of "getting something for Ray", etc.

Like the mother, knowing that her son, needs her help to pack and move back, she chose to stay longer with her parents. So GUESS WHO have to help packing???

YES, your right, its US again!!!!

Just so you know, she hates to pack, clean or do anything like that....Ray is very much the same like her.

I ended up cleaning up the toilet, the kitchen and the refrigerator. Gene tried to hook up the mover's truck for him. All he did was stood there and watch.

His apartment is a mess-cigarettes butts, pieces of papers, dead and dried up roaches, the toilet stinks like a public restroom, with poop stain marks outside at the base of the toilet. Dirty clothes and shoes strewn everywhere. It smelt so bad! I gagged when cleaning the bathroom and toilet for him.

The refrigerator stinks, he had chocolate syrup spilled inside the freezer and fridge areas, he did not bother to clean that up. Food that has expired in the fridge, it stunk like you can never imagine the smell. Think.. "decaying" smell.

He was supposed to pay for the mover's costs, which he vehemently promised me and his dad, but guess what....on the very day, he confessed that he has lost his credit card, so Gene ended up paying for his move.

With Gene helping his dumb ass son to call the bank to cancel the credit card and issue him another one. This is Ray's 3rd time losing his credit card!!! He is a SLOB like his mother. Fortunately, the Bank Manager was wonderful, he helped Ray, to arrange for him to go to the nearest bank branch of his area to withdraw some cash out.

Gene paid $45 to pump gas into the mover's truck for Ray. Total cost amount?? I dont even want to mention but I can tell you that it is an obscene amount of money spent for his move, plus the money Ray has to pay for his first month's rent in his new apartment.

I think that Ray might not hang on to that money, that he has withdrawn, now I KNOW for a fact, that he will spend the money meant for his rent, and, in the end, we have to pay for his first month's rent.

SO WHEEEEEERE, ALLL THIS TIME, is the stupid woman, when her son needs her the MOST???

Gene and I really hope that he does not rack up anymore problems when he is back nearby his mother's, it is a 45 minute drive to her house.

Ray should have made up his mind in the first time to stay there, with his mothers, continue his college education there, rather than moving here to be with us, only to have caused so much trouble last year, and wasted our time, emotionally, and the financial pay off enough to kill us, because of his stupidity.

Enough said, if he messed up again there, Gene and I are going over to kill him!!!