Well, well, many months have passed, so many the usual crap have passed too...hahah...really nothing new with the bitch and her children!!!!!
As usual her sons will come to visit us during their school breaks, SUMMER is NO EXCEPTION! The longest, most dreaded stay of all the visits!!!! *groans* Suuuure, I don't mind if they are so helpful and adapting a good attitude, being co-operative and all, but noooooo....they treated our home like a hotel here. Not lifting their fingers, volunteering nor offering to help.
The first thing of the day, no greetings of "Good Morning", or whatsoever, yes no manners, ill breeding from the FB, headed straight for our computers and proceeded to play computer games. The other child will hogged the tv from day to night's end, sitting there, eating, drinking, making a big sheer mess on the floor, food crumbs, drinks split on the floor.
The two of them, combined, not eat to live, but LIVE to EAT! With their mouths opened, when they chewed, resembling cows chewing curd in the field, like mother like sons! Its disgusting!!!
One day, while passing by the common bathroom, I noticed and smelled a stench undescribable, yessss...lots of poop floated in and about the toilet bowl. I gagged and nearly vormitted! Obviously one of the two boys, have forgotten to flush the toilet!
I was so mad, I asked the two of them, the youngest one, did not even offer to apologize for that, he said he had difficulty in sleeping one night and was too sleepy to realize that he has forgotten to flush the toilet! WTF! I was really pissed! Remember - NO APOLOGY - Just an EXCUSE.
When they left last weekend, good riddance and finally...I can get some decent rest...and peace and quiet....and also having to cleaning up their mess that they left behind!
Apparently, someone, most likely, the youngest child, must have cut his hair and toss the hair bits into the top of his bed headboard...how odd and strange, when I discovered pieces of cut hair there.
They, again, have forgotten to pack some of their stuff left behind again! Despite the several reminders from me and their dad, Gene.
Today, their mom, the FB, called asking for "extra $$$" again citing that she needed $$$ for the second eldest son's tuition for college. She did not elaborate further about this subject matter. Whether she lied to extort extra money or not...only GOD knows, and hopefully, will punish her for it.
From DAY ONE till present - she has NEVER EVER given us child support for the boys' summer stay here, only summertime period, they can stay from 1-2 months, imagine the expenses???!!!!
That mother of theirs aka FB (Fat Bitch) has never cooked a decent meal for her kids, the reason why I know this - is when they come here to stay with us, they get very TERRITORIAL on food, they set bounderies and they get aggressive when that I cooked "insufficent," which is BS to me, because I cooked hefty for these "hungry ghosts" whenever they come to live with us during school breaks.
They behaved like unruly animals, as if they have not eaten for the past 10-20 years, for this latest visit, I noticed that they have changed for the worst instead for the better. Obviously, something must have happened really bad at their own house, for them to behave this way when they stayed here.
Should I call Child Protection Services on this FB or not? Obviously lack of cooking and neglect on these two boys is an offense right?
Think about it - it warrants me to see RED with anger when the boys have been ill treated that way, for a long time there, I bet - hence the reasons why they behaved like that when they stayed with us this summer.
Friday, July 31, 2009
Thursday, January 1, 2009
Happy New Year 2009!!!
I trust you all have a great time ushering in the New Year's?
Yeaaah, we did, Gene and I had a great time toasting the bubblies (champagne), and had seafood dinner at home. Gene cooked for the occasion.
Well, that witch dared not talk to Gene when they met to drop the boys off with her.
The boys spent Christmas with us (without fail). She called me to tell me that she has plans to visit her parents for the New Year's and she wanted the boys there also.
No problem for us. Since her eldest "pet" Ray, is moving out on 2nd January back to her state, she should be diliriously happy, she LOVES TO BE IN CONTROL. Well, good luck to Ray and her, back like old times...at the back of my mind, I know for a fact, she will call me, to ask money, in the pretext of "getting something for Ray", etc.
Like the mother, knowing that her son, needs her help to pack and move back, she chose to stay longer with her parents. So GUESS WHO have to help packing???
YES, your right, its US again!!!!
Just so you know, she hates to pack, clean or do anything like that....Ray is very much the same like her.
I ended up cleaning up the toilet, the kitchen and the refrigerator. Gene tried to hook up the mover's truck for him. All he did was stood there and watch.
His apartment is a mess-cigarettes butts, pieces of papers, dead and dried up roaches, the toilet stinks like a public restroom, with poop stain marks outside at the base of the toilet. Dirty clothes and shoes strewn everywhere. It smelt so bad! I gagged when cleaning the bathroom and toilet for him.
The refrigerator stinks, he had chocolate syrup spilled inside the freezer and fridge areas, he did not bother to clean that up. Food that has expired in the fridge, it stunk like you can never imagine the smell. Think.. "decaying" smell.
He was supposed to pay for the mover's costs, which he vehemently promised me and his dad, but guess what....on the very day, he confessed that he has lost his credit card, so Gene ended up paying for his move.
With Gene helping his dumb ass son to call the bank to cancel the credit card and issue him another one. This is Ray's 3rd time losing his credit card!!! He is a SLOB like his mother. Fortunately, the Bank Manager was wonderful, he helped Ray, to arrange for him to go to the nearest bank branch of his area to withdraw some cash out.
Gene paid $45 to pump gas into the mover's truck for Ray. Total cost amount?? I dont even want to mention but I can tell you that it is an obscene amount of money spent for his move, plus the money Ray has to pay for his first month's rent in his new apartment.
I think that Ray might not hang on to that money, that he has withdrawn, now I KNOW for a fact, that he will spend the money meant for his rent, and, in the end, we have to pay for his first month's rent.
SO WHEEEEEERE, ALLL THIS TIME, is the stupid woman, when her son needs her the MOST???
Gene and I really hope that he does not rack up anymore problems when he is back nearby his mother's, it is a 45 minute drive to her house.
Ray should have made up his mind in the first time to stay there, with his mothers, continue his college education there, rather than moving here to be with us, only to have caused so much trouble last year, and wasted our time, emotionally, and the financial pay off enough to kill us, because of his stupidity.
Enough said, if he messed up again there, Gene and I are going over to kill him!!!
Yeaaah, we did, Gene and I had a great time toasting the bubblies (champagne), and had seafood dinner at home. Gene cooked for the occasion.
Well, that witch dared not talk to Gene when they met to drop the boys off with her.
The boys spent Christmas with us (without fail). She called me to tell me that she has plans to visit her parents for the New Year's and she wanted the boys there also.
No problem for us. Since her eldest "pet" Ray, is moving out on 2nd January back to her state, she should be diliriously happy, she LOVES TO BE IN CONTROL. Well, good luck to Ray and her, back like old times...at the back of my mind, I know for a fact, she will call me, to ask money, in the pretext of "getting something for Ray", etc.
Like the mother, knowing that her son, needs her help to pack and move back, she chose to stay longer with her parents. So GUESS WHO have to help packing???
YES, your right, its US again!!!!
Just so you know, she hates to pack, clean or do anything like that....Ray is very much the same like her.
I ended up cleaning up the toilet, the kitchen and the refrigerator. Gene tried to hook up the mover's truck for him. All he did was stood there and watch.
His apartment is a mess-cigarettes butts, pieces of papers, dead and dried up roaches, the toilet stinks like a public restroom, with poop stain marks outside at the base of the toilet. Dirty clothes and shoes strewn everywhere. It smelt so bad! I gagged when cleaning the bathroom and toilet for him.
The refrigerator stinks, he had chocolate syrup spilled inside the freezer and fridge areas, he did not bother to clean that up. Food that has expired in the fridge, it stunk like you can never imagine the smell. Think.. "decaying" smell.
He was supposed to pay for the mover's costs, which he vehemently promised me and his dad, but guess what....on the very day, he confessed that he has lost his credit card, so Gene ended up paying for his move.
With Gene helping his dumb ass son to call the bank to cancel the credit card and issue him another one. This is Ray's 3rd time losing his credit card!!! He is a SLOB like his mother. Fortunately, the Bank Manager was wonderful, he helped Ray, to arrange for him to go to the nearest bank branch of his area to withdraw some cash out.
Gene paid $45 to pump gas into the mover's truck for Ray. Total cost amount?? I dont even want to mention but I can tell you that it is an obscene amount of money spent for his move, plus the money Ray has to pay for his first month's rent in his new apartment.
I think that Ray might not hang on to that money, that he has withdrawn, now I KNOW for a fact, that he will spend the money meant for his rent, and, in the end, we have to pay for his first month's rent.
SO WHEEEEEERE, ALLL THIS TIME, is the stupid woman, when her son needs her the MOST???
Gene and I really hope that he does not rack up anymore problems when he is back nearby his mother's, it is a 45 minute drive to her house.
Ray should have made up his mind in the first time to stay there, with his mothers, continue his college education there, rather than moving here to be with us, only to have caused so much trouble last year, and wasted our time, emotionally, and the financial pay off enough to kill us, because of his stupidity.
Enough said, if he messed up again there, Gene and I are going over to kill him!!!
Saturday, December 27, 2008
These months have been busy and hellish!!!
Fancy that???? I thought November and December months would mean PEACE from the two famous trouble makers???? Ummm...NOT!!!!!!!!!!!
Ray has been out of a job since August 2008 till November 2008. Getting money from me and Gene. NO HELP FROM HIS MOTHER, she gave him $20 and that was it!!! WTF!!!
Your own biological mother not helping you and yet your step mother is helping you???!!!
Dont get me wrong, I dont mind helping Ray when he is always strapped for cash, she would give off the cuff snide remarks about me wanting to "override" her motherly duties, OMG...pulleeeeese as if I am going to snatch her 3 sons away from her, and make her look bad like she is a lousy mother...yeah, in true reality SHE IS A LOUSY MOTHER!!!
She has NO LOVE for her sons, never backed them up emotionally or financially help out...she sucks up to her idiotic husband's two teenage children MORE than her own sons, her own flesh and blood.
Sooo ridiculous!!! Pushing her reponsibilities to me and Gene, she would say "Well, its YOUR JOB to take care of the boys" What does that mean???? It is "NOT HER JOB" to take care of the boys"???!!! So, again, what is REALLY "HER JOB" then?.......probably her definitely of "her job" is to GIVE BIRTH thats all...stupid fat cow!!!
We had Thanksgiving and Gene Junior's birthday was around the same time as Thanksgiving. It has been EVERY YEAR since DAY 1 after Gene and that Creature divorced back in 1995. She HAS NEVER COOKED for festive or even on seasonal periods. Pushing the boys to eat at our home.
Its not a problem for us, in fact, we like the idea that the boys spent their time with us, it just IRKES me to think she cant even be bothered to make something for her sons, before sending them over to us.
Its at DAD's PLACE for Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year's
She is very cunning, as you know why, firstly, she does not need to cook, she can save money by not doing anything for her sons, she pushed all to us, and then, she and that idiot goes to friends' house to eat. The previous years, she made her parents drive 17 hours to see her just to cook Thanksgiving dinner for her and her husband, what kind of a human being would do that???!!! You tell me.
Moochers, like her eldest son, Ray, he learn the Moocher ropes from the mother, he lies when he is confronted. We knew that, he spend money on drinking and smoking!
What can we do...he is already 19 years old, an adult in this country, we can only talk to him, it is really entirely up to him to realize and changed for the better. If he doesnt, then thats too bad for him.
We are NOT going to be sucked into his sh**load of problems, bailing his butt everytime he is in a rut, not fair to us in the end.
His mother does not care to help him, so what does he do then, he come and asks us for financial help.
We payed for his haircut, his move to next state, I got him a job in December 2008 for a seasonal job delivery parcels. Plus, paying the rent for his new apartment there. Right now, I am going to find him a job in the other state so that he can survive and take care of himself, which, to me, he does not know how to.
A natural born problem creator, not a problem solver, in my personal opinion, like the mother, and like the son.
Christmas is the same also, we spent so much money on him alone, and on top of that, bought him a gift. He loves to snack. And he gets cold easily, we got him a nice fleece blanket.
His brothers, we bought video games, as usual, the second son, wanted an Apple IPhone, we got him that, and paid a bundle for it, almost losing an arm and a leg to get that phone for him! :) Just kidding...that stupid woman called me to ask whether we are going to buy the phone for him or not...you know WHY, right????
Yes....she does not want to pay for it, and pushed us to buy it for him, instead of her.
Cheap, cunning, stupid...all the degoratory remarks she is the TOP of the list...haha..
We feel nothing but disgust and disappointment when it comes to her.
Ray has been out of a job since August 2008 till November 2008. Getting money from me and Gene. NO HELP FROM HIS MOTHER, she gave him $20 and that was it!!! WTF!!!
Your own biological mother not helping you and yet your step mother is helping you???!!!
Dont get me wrong, I dont mind helping Ray when he is always strapped for cash, she would give off the cuff snide remarks about me wanting to "override" her motherly duties, OMG...pulleeeeese as if I am going to snatch her 3 sons away from her, and make her look bad like she is a lousy mother...yeah, in true reality SHE IS A LOUSY MOTHER!!!
She has NO LOVE for her sons, never backed them up emotionally or financially help out...she sucks up to her idiotic husband's two teenage children MORE than her own sons, her own flesh and blood.
Sooo ridiculous!!! Pushing her reponsibilities to me and Gene, she would say "Well, its YOUR JOB to take care of the boys" What does that mean???? It is "NOT HER JOB" to take care of the boys"???!!! So, again, what is REALLY "HER JOB" then?.......probably her definitely of "her job" is to GIVE BIRTH thats all...stupid fat cow!!!
We had Thanksgiving and Gene Junior's birthday was around the same time as Thanksgiving. It has been EVERY YEAR since DAY 1 after Gene and that Creature divorced back in 1995. She HAS NEVER COOKED for festive or even on seasonal periods. Pushing the boys to eat at our home.
Its not a problem for us, in fact, we like the idea that the boys spent their time with us, it just IRKES me to think she cant even be bothered to make something for her sons, before sending them over to us.
Its at DAD's PLACE for Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year's
She is very cunning, as you know why, firstly, she does not need to cook, she can save money by not doing anything for her sons, she pushed all to us, and then, she and that idiot goes to friends' house to eat. The previous years, she made her parents drive 17 hours to see her just to cook Thanksgiving dinner for her and her husband, what kind of a human being would do that???!!! You tell me.
Moochers, like her eldest son, Ray, he learn the Moocher ropes from the mother, he lies when he is confronted. We knew that, he spend money on drinking and smoking!
What can we do...he is already 19 years old, an adult in this country, we can only talk to him, it is really entirely up to him to realize and changed for the better. If he doesnt, then thats too bad for him.
We are NOT going to be sucked into his sh**load of problems, bailing his butt everytime he is in a rut, not fair to us in the end.
His mother does not care to help him, so what does he do then, he come and asks us for financial help.
We payed for his haircut, his move to next state, I got him a job in December 2008 for a seasonal job delivery parcels. Plus, paying the rent for his new apartment there. Right now, I am going to find him a job in the other state so that he can survive and take care of himself, which, to me, he does not know how to.
A natural born problem creator, not a problem solver, in my personal opinion, like the mother, and like the son.
Christmas is the same also, we spent so much money on him alone, and on top of that, bought him a gift. He loves to snack. And he gets cold easily, we got him a nice fleece blanket.
His brothers, we bought video games, as usual, the second son, wanted an Apple IPhone, we got him that, and paid a bundle for it, almost losing an arm and a leg to get that phone for him! :) Just kidding...that stupid woman called me to ask whether we are going to buy the phone for him or not...you know WHY, right????
Yes....she does not want to pay for it, and pushed us to buy it for him, instead of her.
Cheap, cunning, stupid...all the degoratory remarks she is the TOP of the list...haha..
We feel nothing but disgust and disappointment when it comes to her.
Wednesday, October 22, 2008
Its October... more problematic events unfolded....
Yes, indeed, after some peace I thought, was too good to be true...before I knew it October is here...haha.. I thought I can get away with more peace and serenity...NOT...fat chance, especially when it concerns on "you-know-who???!!!" Yeeeap, Marie and Ray AGAIN!!!!!!
These two are born to be natural trouble makers...its either that they are just too evil scheming minded persons, or just, having too much FREE TIME on their hands, nothing better to do, want to CREATE SOMETHING.
Yes, their evil minded deeds continues...Ray called in panic, because he did not know what he SHOULD DO when his car has a flat tire..so and??? I thought...what do you want us, meaning your father(Gene) and I to do? Drive the whole 2.5 hours there to go help you change the car tire?
19 years old, male, don't even know how to CHANGE a car tire? Oh for heaven's sake, his mother, Marie called me and displayed the same panic like behavior...LIKE MOTHER...LIKE SON.
Hmmm...she called to complained that her son has a flat tire, and said the she took it upon herself to explain to him step-by-step on how to change a car tire, so, I thought "where the heck are his college friends, aren't there anyone who can help him there and then?"
Surely, there must be at least ONE GOOD SAMARITAN who will help "her precious son" on how to change a tire??!! Jeeez!!!
She, as usual, full of SHIT, no money, as if...when someone tells you out right that they are "flat broke" then the next visit to pick the other 2 boys up, their house was sprouting with new stuff like :-
1) an above ground swimming pool
2) a 42 inch Samsung HDTV
Now who is she trying to kid us that she has NO MONEY. Her infamous words "I dont have the money boo hoo" That woman can cry truck loads of tears, to evoke pity from us, too bad, she dont fool us that easily, the only ones who are fooled into this emotional roller-coaster blackmail style are her 3 sons!
Yes...they are always suckered into her scheming ideas and ways..and also on how she wants to EXTORT MORE money from us, giving the excuses that Ray needs to get this and that, etc along the other two brothers.
We, always send her the money, however, she never produce any proof of purchase receipts to support her "claims" from day 1!
We wondered, and, then, we knew all along where our money went to her and that idiotic husband of hers, the two adulterers. Spent the money on themselves and his two teenage children from his previous marriage to another woman.
She always sends email reminders when Gene's payday is due...reminding Gene or me to transfer her child support money.
Ray, like the mother, has no priorities in life, because he is so used to be told on what to do, how to think, how to move by his mother. Talk about a very manipulative person, that's MARIE for you! That boils down to laziness!
"Stupid is as Stupid Does"
All her boys are beyond redemption, they can't change, they already into her lies too deep till the point when she did something bad, they don't see her do wrong, but blamed us for her mistakes. They have been so very brainwashed and have been poisoned by her lies at a very young age till their teens years now.
Looking outside in - I would not know how to advise nor help them. I only hope that one FINE DAY, they will see their mother's actual TRUE COLORS.
Ray, spent the $80, from Gene, meant to buy a new car tire, on whatever crap he spent on! He kept quiet and did not tell us, until, one afternoon, I received a phone call from a towing company informing us that a car belonging to Ray has been towed to the towing company, we have to pay the towing fees and fine, because Ray left his car parked at a gas station. Probably, the owner of the gas station may have made the call to the towing company.
Guess WHO has to pay for the towing fees? Yeeees, its US again!!! Marie refused to help her own son, when it comes to the financial aspects of it. She PUSHED and PASSED THE BUCK, many times, to us to do the paying NOT HER.
That evil woman and son team, treats Gene like a ATM machine and treats me like a second class citizen because I am a Eurasian(half of it is Asian).
She even has the cheek to tell Ray that it is "your father's job, not mine to pay, cuz I have no money!!!"
Riiiight, no choice, we had to take out money from our retirement savings account to pay for Ray. It cost $378!!!!! We gave Ray $400, because he badly needs a haircut, he has yet to find a job since August 31st 2008.
Who wants to hire someone with damn long greasy hair???!!!!!
He was fired by his last employer because of his mother, WHY? She cried and pressured him to stay for a week visit with her, in fact, he could only take two days off to visit her. The company, at the time, was short-handed, and Ray not around to help them.
When he got back, he was told that he does not have to report for work anymore.
Well, what did the evil bitch do? She did not do anything about it, no apology nothing to her son..she does not care at all, she wants and she jolly well takes it, she does not care at her son's or other people for that matter, even at their expense or misfortune, only if it BENEFITS herself, and not benefit the others!
One word comes to mind immediately with this disgusting behavior...SELFISH!!!
I for one am not the kind that swears vulgarities - but this particular woman DO NOT DESERVE MY RESPECT or EMPATHY AT ALL, she is a SLUT in all counts. The kind that a man can use for a quick "FIX" and disposed of...a cheap skang h**le and a hustler for money. Therefore, I used harsh words to describe her.
The more vulgar the better because it suits her!!!
She called at the house again the next day and the next consecutively 3 days till last evening guess what "ASKING FOR MORE MONEY"
Marie is the most thick-skinned person ever existed...We are already tight with the sudden INCIDENTAL expenses, unexpected some more, she has the gall to call and ask whether we can spare her $20 she claims that she bought stuff for Gene Jr. She said she helped and gave $20 to Ray because he needed extra for a haircut.
Fine - we gave her the $20...but on the side I told Gene my suspicions, we straight away knew that she did not HELP her son at all for any of these unforseen events that he has caused from day 1 at all!!! In fact, she lied big time, when I questioned her, she sounded agitated and was in a hurry to hang up.
So, by actual fact, she did not help Ray by giving him $20, she claimed $20 from us, get it?:) This woman is so pathethic... she ought to be condemned at and from all levels!
MORE to come for sure, so STAY TUNED...thanks!
These two are born to be natural trouble makers...its either that they are just too evil scheming minded persons, or just, having too much FREE TIME on their hands, nothing better to do, want to CREATE SOMETHING.
Yes, their evil minded deeds continues...Ray called in panic, because he did not know what he SHOULD DO when his car has a flat tire..so and??? I thought...what do you want us, meaning your father(Gene) and I to do? Drive the whole 2.5 hours there to go help you change the car tire?
19 years old, male, don't even know how to CHANGE a car tire? Oh for heaven's sake, his mother, Marie called me and displayed the same panic like behavior...LIKE MOTHER...LIKE SON.
Hmmm...she called to complained that her son has a flat tire, and said the she took it upon herself to explain to him step-by-step on how to change a car tire, so, I thought "where the heck are his college friends, aren't there anyone who can help him there and then?"
Surely, there must be at least ONE GOOD SAMARITAN who will help "her precious son" on how to change a tire??!! Jeeez!!!
She, as usual, full of SHIT, no money, as if...when someone tells you out right that they are "flat broke" then the next visit to pick the other 2 boys up, their house was sprouting with new stuff like :-
1) an above ground swimming pool
2) a 42 inch Samsung HDTV
Now who is she trying to kid us that she has NO MONEY. Her infamous words "I dont have the money boo hoo" That woman can cry truck loads of tears, to evoke pity from us, too bad, she dont fool us that easily, the only ones who are fooled into this emotional roller-coaster blackmail style are her 3 sons!
Yes...they are always suckered into her scheming ideas and ways..and also on how she wants to EXTORT MORE money from us, giving the excuses that Ray needs to get this and that, etc along the other two brothers.
We, always send her the money, however, she never produce any proof of purchase receipts to support her "claims" from day 1!
We wondered, and, then, we knew all along where our money went to her and that idiotic husband of hers, the two adulterers. Spent the money on themselves and his two teenage children from his previous marriage to another woman.
She always sends email reminders when Gene's payday is due...reminding Gene or me to transfer her child support money.
Ray, like the mother, has no priorities in life, because he is so used to be told on what to do, how to think, how to move by his mother. Talk about a very manipulative person, that's MARIE for you! That boils down to laziness!
"Stupid is as Stupid Does"
All her boys are beyond redemption, they can't change, they already into her lies too deep till the point when she did something bad, they don't see her do wrong, but blamed us for her mistakes. They have been so very brainwashed and have been poisoned by her lies at a very young age till their teens years now.
Looking outside in - I would not know how to advise nor help them. I only hope that one FINE DAY, they will see their mother's actual TRUE COLORS.
Ray, spent the $80, from Gene, meant to buy a new car tire, on whatever crap he spent on! He kept quiet and did not tell us, until, one afternoon, I received a phone call from a towing company informing us that a car belonging to Ray has been towed to the towing company, we have to pay the towing fees and fine, because Ray left his car parked at a gas station. Probably, the owner of the gas station may have made the call to the towing company.
Guess WHO has to pay for the towing fees? Yeeees, its US again!!! Marie refused to help her own son, when it comes to the financial aspects of it. She PUSHED and PASSED THE BUCK, many times, to us to do the paying NOT HER.
That evil woman and son team, treats Gene like a ATM machine and treats me like a second class citizen because I am a Eurasian(half of it is Asian).
She even has the cheek to tell Ray that it is "your father's job, not mine to pay, cuz I have no money!!!"
Riiiight, no choice, we had to take out money from our retirement savings account to pay for Ray. It cost $378!!!!! We gave Ray $400, because he badly needs a haircut, he has yet to find a job since August 31st 2008.
Who wants to hire someone with damn long greasy hair???!!!!!
He was fired by his last employer because of his mother, WHY? She cried and pressured him to stay for a week visit with her, in fact, he could only take two days off to visit her. The company, at the time, was short-handed, and Ray not around to help them.
When he got back, he was told that he does not have to report for work anymore.
Well, what did the evil bitch do? She did not do anything about it, no apology nothing to her son..she does not care at all, she wants and she jolly well takes it, she does not care at her son's or other people for that matter, even at their expense or misfortune, only if it BENEFITS herself, and not benefit the others!
One word comes to mind immediately with this disgusting behavior...SELFISH!!!
I for one am not the kind that swears vulgarities - but this particular woman DO NOT DESERVE MY RESPECT or EMPATHY AT ALL, she is a SLUT in all counts. The kind that a man can use for a quick "FIX" and disposed of...a cheap skang h**le and a hustler for money. Therefore, I used harsh words to describe her.
The more vulgar the better because it suits her!!!
She called at the house again the next day and the next consecutively 3 days till last evening guess what "ASKING FOR MORE MONEY"
Marie is the most thick-skinned person ever existed...We are already tight with the sudden INCIDENTAL expenses, unexpected some more, she has the gall to call and ask whether we can spare her $20 she claims that she bought stuff for Gene Jr. She said she helped and gave $20 to Ray because he needed extra for a haircut.
Fine - we gave her the $20...but on the side I told Gene my suspicions, we straight away knew that she did not HELP her son at all for any of these unforseen events that he has caused from day 1 at all!!! In fact, she lied big time, when I questioned her, she sounded agitated and was in a hurry to hang up.
So, by actual fact, she did not help Ray by giving him $20, she claimed $20 from us, get it?:) This woman is so pathethic... she ought to be condemned at and from all levels!
MORE to come for sure, so STAY TUNED...thanks!
Monday, September 22, 2008
The two Creatures "at work and at their best"!:) And, Ray's stupid act!
"More Dramas to Come" was my last post...hahaha, true enough, the two Creatures, Marie and Ray, are at work and at their best to snub me, which I could not care less, and did their best and at present still doing their best, to aggravate me...I am so happy to report that their tactics failed miserably, which got them even more angrier...hahaha, in short, their bad deeds towards me have backfired! LOL
I could not contained myself from laughing so hard...these two smucks are really moronic in their mentality and how they think...I wont be surprised if there aren't really brains in their heads but more of "empty car parking lots" *snickerings*
Gene was exasperated at these two, he is not surprised about Marie pulling stunts like these to me, however, he was so disappointed that his eldest son, Ray, also joined his mother. Whaaaat? The force of two...oh pullleessse, what morons!
The mother is so childish in her ways, self centred and a spoilt brat, its no wonder, the eldest son, is carrying her legacies! The reasons why I am so very certain, because I am pretty good in my predictions. She expects me to kowtow to her, and her son is also the same like her, I have to accommodate these two all the time...like as it that they are GOD's gifts to the human race! Downright selfish, self centred, narcissistic, and definitely inconsiderate are more like it! Ridiculous!
Gene has repeated told her should there by anything concerning about the boys' development and progress, she can talk to him about it, other than that, he does not want to talk to her. He said, if he is busy at work, dont bother to call him there, she has a habit of calling him at the office for and about everything, like "Oh, can I have the child support money now, instead of Friday? Cuz, I am broke now, dont have the money to "feed" the boys"...hummm, yeah right! Things could wait until Gene gets home from work.
One day, she called at the apartment, as usual, did not address me on the phone, as if I have no name..."hey, I cant get Gene at the office, can you remind him to put money in the bank for me, alright, bye" Not even a word of "thanks".
When Gene came home and told me that Marie has left many messages at work, he was busy and could not call her back, and asked me what she had wanted, I told him that she called at the apartment, and sounded annoyed that she could not locate him.
Gene shrugged and I asked him why can't she even called me at the apartment, she can let me know, it is not a MAJOR CATASTROPHE like she is going to keel any minute? Hmmmm...that woman, needs to have her head examined. Same goes for her eldest son, Ray...I think he inherited MOST of her personality and demeanor. You know, if Ray wanted to and he is strong minded not weak minded and "spineless" he can change his outlook in life, improve himself, be different than her. Like Marie, Ray loves to blame on others, never himself, because he is PERFECT, he is full of EXCUSES, but never on SOLUTIONS, he is so RESISTANT to CHANGES, LAZY...thanks to his mother for her so called upbringing.
He is now 19 years old, an adult, with no sense of direction on what he wants to do with his life. I spent several late nights and early mornings, helped him to apply jobs for him online, emailed for him. Even make him go for interviews.
Something happened earlier this year, he could not stay at his college dorm because his stupid mother has forgotten to file in the papers for him for the begining of the year 2008 semester, she also forgot to apply for additional financial aid assistance for his new semester.
So Gene had arranged for him to stay with Gene's eldest sister temporary for 4 months, and in the meantime, find a job to get himself occupied until the summer semester, by then, the papers submitted by his scatter-brained mother, would be processed and ready for him to start school.
I don't understand her - how come she did not messed up her stepson's paperwork for his college semesters. She has two stepchildren from the Jerk, a boy and a girl.
We called Ray, and he gave us the impression all is ok, and he is making a point to look for jobs during this period. OK thats good...then one night, Gene's sister called, sounded upset, was livid and crying hysterically on the phone. She was practically screaming at Gene when she told Gene that her son, Donny and Ray got arrested by the cops for possesion of controlled substance.
Oh sh**!!!, why did Ray do such a stupid thing like that??!!! Gene tried to pacify his sister, she was so mad on the phone, she said she wants Ray out of her house, and told Gene to come and get him.
Gene had no choice, but to take urgent leave to get Ray, collected all of his belongings, had to leave Gene's other spare car, which is Ray's now at his sister's place, because when Ray moved out of our place, he thrashed the car up and there was a hole in the carborater. Ray was supposed to get it fixed in the fist place, he did not bother to do it.
We have since relocated to another state and living in a house, not an apartment now, I have prepared his room up for him. Gene and I bought new furniture and a new queen sized bedroom suite for Ray.
Ray, with his head down as he entered our house, did not say anything, looked depressed, and at the same time, ignored eye contact with me.
My mother in law, Gene's mother called up. She was mad and upset at Ray too. She said that Ray did nothing to help with chores at the house, only slept all the time, did not wake up to make an effort to find a job. He prefers to hangout with bad company and got her grandson, Donny, into trouble too.
Ray showed us his two tickets, he has to appear 2 different courts on different locations and timings. For possession of marajuana and speeding ticket plus possession of marajuana.... What?!!! He has not committed once, but TWICE. He smoked pot, marajuana, drink beer, alchohol, take alchol shots, cigarettes.
When Gene confonted him and asked him why? He said he wanted to try, because his friends dared him to, so he did it...He even have the cheek to say to us that it is not a big deal at all. We cant say anything about it, because he said that he is an adult, and we have no say. In my opinion, that boy needs to be smacked hard up side his head and a big kick in the butt.
The next few months of his stay was pure hell for me and for his father. He was acting up, behaving bad and lazy most of the time. Not helping me around the house.
All he does is EAT, EAT, EAT, WATCH TV the WHOLE DAY, SLEEP ALMOST THE WHOLE DAY, SLEEPS PAST 2AM AT NIGHTS/WEE MORNINGS. He can't be bothered to even bring his dirty clothes to the laundry room, he leaves them in a heap, in the bedroom, we have to tell him to do it.
That boy EATS foods enough and meant for 6 persons! And drinks about 8 cans of soda daily, drinks two tall glasses of milk, and eat desserts. He hoardes food in his mini fridge in his room. He has a jar of pickles in his mini fridge. We have to buy his sodas and snacks for his mini fridge.
He stuffed his face all the time and round the clock.
The only "talents" that boy has is EAT, SLEEP and SH**! Thats all he is good for. He is like a slug, a leech, a moocher and a couch commando. He has a habit of digging his ears to get the ear wax out of his eyes and wiped them on our new furniture. Caught him off doing that. Disgusting!
Told my best friend, Florence, about it she was mad at him and called him a "bastard".
We had to badger him into going out and finding a job. He is so very lazy. By then, Gene got his other car fixed and Ray could use the car to look for jobs. Ray has a habit of dragging the situation, told him to do it now, go for the interview, he will pushed it and said "I will go tomorrow" "Tomorrow" came, nothing, zilch...Ray was still sleeping and snoring in his room!
Luckily for him, I am only his step parent, if I am his biological mom, he will be thrown out of the house, to fend for himself, or, I will put him in a Rehabilitation Centre for drug and smoking addicts. I blamed Marie for her poor upbringing.
Over late nights and early mornings, I helped him to apply for jobs online. Called Hiring Companies to find out jobs for him. Why can't he get up his fat lazy ass to do all these, just too lazy, instead of me doing all the work for him. I am looking for a job, he is!
I pity Gene that he has such an ass for a son. Ray is 19 years old, has no idea what he wants to do or what he could do. Good for nothing comes to my mind. He have been acting beligerent to us, defensive, reminding us that he is old enough and he KNOWS he is doing, yeeeeeah riiiight, dumb ass! (Well, Excuuuuuse me, Ray, your telling us to butt out of your life, sure fine, if you want us to...the next time you screwed up, don't call us okay?! Call your stupid mother, you evil ungrateful child.)
In America, parents can't really "control" their children anymore. Children are considered old enough to make their own decisions. Obviously, this dummy can't make his own decisions, made poor judgements, he can't EVEN make his own bed, tidy up his own rental apartment, which he insisted on wanting to move out, even though he is NOT mentally ready emotional, worse still, not financially abled to.
At last, I found him a job at a grocery store and made him get up and go for the interview. He was cranky and agitated and told me off for making him get up so early, hey, 9 AM in the morning is EARLY? Golly, he thinks he is a Celebrity...or even a MODEL, who wont get out of bed unless $$$$$$$$ paid to him?
He worked for 3.5 months. All this time, his mother aka the Chief Creature, his partner in crime, has been calling him many times on the phone, in the middle of the night too. That boy can really sleep at 3am in the morning. Its no wonder he can't get up early the next day, and was cranky all the time.
Phone conversations continued with his mother must have made his decision to move out to an apartment near the college a month earlier. Whose idea? I think its hers. He listens to her faithfully and loyaly like a pet dog, you know what I mean. He worshipped the ground she walks on. He does not listen to his dad, Gene.
Gene tried to reason out with him, telling him that starting the summer semester may be too soon, and Ray is not ready to start, suggested that Ray should start the fall semester.
That boy, can be as stubborn as a mule, insisted and persisted on moving out to an apartment.
We helped him with the move, and paid for the Uhaul to get his stuff out. Cost up a whopping $1,500 plus the shoppings that we did for him, so that he could have ALL set up for him when he moves into the apartment. Gene unpacked and arrange his stuff while I helped to clean the kitchen, bathroom and toilet areas for him. All these things we have done for him, to him is never enough. He idolizes his mother more than his own Dad, when his mother does NOTHING for him. Do you see the logic here?
Love your mother is fine, but not till your love for her is blind.
Marie has done a lot of bad things in her life, including, having an affair for 6 months, with Gene's colleagues. She hurt a lot of people and she dont not care. I called that EVIL, like her son. These kind of people do it for their own agendas and whatever benefits them FIRST.
All these things that we did for him, not his mother...are NOT ENOUGH for him apparently.
Gosh, grrrrow up boy, for goodness sakes!!!
Guess WHO has to PAY for his RENT every month? Did you guessed correctly?
Gene and I. For his college, we bought him a 17" inch laptop complete, with carrying case, for him, we bought him some small appliances, like coffee maker, bread toaster, etc for him to use, PLUS, we have to buy him a month's worth of GROCERIES for him.
We even got him a queen sized bedroom suite with matching closets/wardrobe cabinets, etc...he still does not appreciate it at all. So, what gives???
And where is the mother? Is she not helping? When Gene called her and put her "on the speaker phone" He asked her whether she could chip in the expenses, after all, it is their eldest son, the first one going to college...she broke down and cried on the phone, yup, Mrs Crybaby...said that she has no money to help and she said it is Gene's JOB to do it and not hers.
What to f***!!!!! Gene's JOB, spilled into MY JOB, too??? Hey, I am not Ray biological mother, she is!!!! damn it, fat and evil b**** and adulteress!!!
We got a call from Robbie last night, informing us that he had passed his driving test, he is 16 years old now. Robbie did not want to make a big fuss about it. But, his mother, Marie, insisted that he informed us because she felt that it was "important news".
You know WHY, right? ---- *hint*..*hint* she WANTS us to PAY for Robbie's car and when he gets to college next, we have to PAY AGAIN!!!!
Tell me, I am a Christian, and she is one too...why is she SO EVIL, what type of Christian is she??? Then, what's the point of going to church??? EVIL person shold not pray, she goes but on three times a week, previously she went to church every evenings, dragging the 3 boys with her to pray. Every evenings, does she has a lot of sins she needs to confessed? Not, that woman does not do things like that, she thinks she is PERFECT in everyways, its other people's faults, never hers. Like Mother, Like Son.
Pray??? Why bother, she should be praying to the DEVIL then, not GOD. If only I could ask GOD, what did she prayed so hard about???? Definitely not just about herself, the Jerk and his kids' well being, not her own 3 boys - but mainly, prayed hard that Gene and I break up fast, that I dont give birth and that our marraige wont last long.
I bet you my bottom dollar that she did prayed on that also, and continues to do so on a regular basis.
GOD is great all the time, I know for sure, he wont want to hear her constantly cursing us, etc. She better not do that, if she did it, the saying goes: "What goes arounds, comes around" I believe in KARMA.
Tempted to give her a dressing down on what I personally think of her and her eldest son, then on second thought, I will hold on that thought for now, save it later...heheh
Let me accumulated all of these events/incidents caused by her and her son, and them I will let them have it all one big time.
Not now though, one fine day, I will eventually. Promise.:)
I could not contained myself from laughing so hard...these two smucks are really moronic in their mentality and how they think...I wont be surprised if there aren't really brains in their heads but more of "empty car parking lots" *snickerings*
Gene was exasperated at these two, he is not surprised about Marie pulling stunts like these to me, however, he was so disappointed that his eldest son, Ray, also joined his mother. Whaaaat? The force of two...oh pullleessse, what morons!
The mother is so childish in her ways, self centred and a spoilt brat, its no wonder, the eldest son, is carrying her legacies! The reasons why I am so very certain, because I am pretty good in my predictions. She expects me to kowtow to her, and her son is also the same like her, I have to accommodate these two all the time...like as it that they are GOD's gifts to the human race! Downright selfish, self centred, narcissistic, and definitely inconsiderate are more like it! Ridiculous!
Gene has repeated told her should there by anything concerning about the boys' development and progress, she can talk to him about it, other than that, he does not want to talk to her. He said, if he is busy at work, dont bother to call him there, she has a habit of calling him at the office for and about everything, like "Oh, can I have the child support money now, instead of Friday? Cuz, I am broke now, dont have the money to "feed" the boys"...hummm, yeah right! Things could wait until Gene gets home from work.
One day, she called at the apartment, as usual, did not address me on the phone, as if I have no name..."hey, I cant get Gene at the office, can you remind him to put money in the bank for me, alright, bye" Not even a word of "thanks".
When Gene came home and told me that Marie has left many messages at work, he was busy and could not call her back, and asked me what she had wanted, I told him that she called at the apartment, and sounded annoyed that she could not locate him.
Gene shrugged and I asked him why can't she even called me at the apartment, she can let me know, it is not a MAJOR CATASTROPHE like she is going to keel any minute? Hmmmm...that woman, needs to have her head examined. Same goes for her eldest son, Ray...I think he inherited MOST of her personality and demeanor. You know, if Ray wanted to and he is strong minded not weak minded and "spineless" he can change his outlook in life, improve himself, be different than her. Like Marie, Ray loves to blame on others, never himself, because he is PERFECT, he is full of EXCUSES, but never on SOLUTIONS, he is so RESISTANT to CHANGES, LAZY...thanks to his mother for her so called upbringing.
He is now 19 years old, an adult, with no sense of direction on what he wants to do with his life. I spent several late nights and early mornings, helped him to apply jobs for him online, emailed for him. Even make him go for interviews.
Something happened earlier this year, he could not stay at his college dorm because his stupid mother has forgotten to file in the papers for him for the begining of the year 2008 semester, she also forgot to apply for additional financial aid assistance for his new semester.
So Gene had arranged for him to stay with Gene's eldest sister temporary for 4 months, and in the meantime, find a job to get himself occupied until the summer semester, by then, the papers submitted by his scatter-brained mother, would be processed and ready for him to start school.
I don't understand her - how come she did not messed up her stepson's paperwork for his college semesters. She has two stepchildren from the Jerk, a boy and a girl.
We called Ray, and he gave us the impression all is ok, and he is making a point to look for jobs during this period. OK thats good...then one night, Gene's sister called, sounded upset, was livid and crying hysterically on the phone. She was practically screaming at Gene when she told Gene that her son, Donny and Ray got arrested by the cops for possesion of controlled substance.
Oh sh**!!!, why did Ray do such a stupid thing like that??!!! Gene tried to pacify his sister, she was so mad on the phone, she said she wants Ray out of her house, and told Gene to come and get him.
Gene had no choice, but to take urgent leave to get Ray, collected all of his belongings, had to leave Gene's other spare car, which is Ray's now at his sister's place, because when Ray moved out of our place, he thrashed the car up and there was a hole in the carborater. Ray was supposed to get it fixed in the fist place, he did not bother to do it.
We have since relocated to another state and living in a house, not an apartment now, I have prepared his room up for him. Gene and I bought new furniture and a new queen sized bedroom suite for Ray.
Ray, with his head down as he entered our house, did not say anything, looked depressed, and at the same time, ignored eye contact with me.
My mother in law, Gene's mother called up. She was mad and upset at Ray too. She said that Ray did nothing to help with chores at the house, only slept all the time, did not wake up to make an effort to find a job. He prefers to hangout with bad company and got her grandson, Donny, into trouble too.
Ray showed us his two tickets, he has to appear 2 different courts on different locations and timings. For possession of marajuana and speeding ticket plus possession of marajuana.... What?!!! He has not committed once, but TWICE. He smoked pot, marajuana, drink beer, alchohol, take alchol shots, cigarettes.
When Gene confonted him and asked him why? He said he wanted to try, because his friends dared him to, so he did it...He even have the cheek to say to us that it is not a big deal at all. We cant say anything about it, because he said that he is an adult, and we have no say. In my opinion, that boy needs to be smacked hard up side his head and a big kick in the butt.
The next few months of his stay was pure hell for me and for his father. He was acting up, behaving bad and lazy most of the time. Not helping me around the house.
All he does is EAT, EAT, EAT, WATCH TV the WHOLE DAY, SLEEP ALMOST THE WHOLE DAY, SLEEPS PAST 2AM AT NIGHTS/WEE MORNINGS. He can't be bothered to even bring his dirty clothes to the laundry room, he leaves them in a heap, in the bedroom, we have to tell him to do it.
That boy EATS foods enough and meant for 6 persons! And drinks about 8 cans of soda daily, drinks two tall glasses of milk, and eat desserts. He hoardes food in his mini fridge in his room. He has a jar of pickles in his mini fridge. We have to buy his sodas and snacks for his mini fridge.
He stuffed his face all the time and round the clock.
The only "talents" that boy has is EAT, SLEEP and SH**! Thats all he is good for. He is like a slug, a leech, a moocher and a couch commando. He has a habit of digging his ears to get the ear wax out of his eyes and wiped them on our new furniture. Caught him off doing that. Disgusting!
Told my best friend, Florence, about it she was mad at him and called him a "bastard".
We had to badger him into going out and finding a job. He is so very lazy. By then, Gene got his other car fixed and Ray could use the car to look for jobs. Ray has a habit of dragging the situation, told him to do it now, go for the interview, he will pushed it and said "I will go tomorrow" "Tomorrow" came, nothing, zilch...Ray was still sleeping and snoring in his room!
Luckily for him, I am only his step parent, if I am his biological mom, he will be thrown out of the house, to fend for himself, or, I will put him in a Rehabilitation Centre for drug and smoking addicts. I blamed Marie for her poor upbringing.
Over late nights and early mornings, I helped him to apply for jobs online. Called Hiring Companies to find out jobs for him. Why can't he get up his fat lazy ass to do all these, just too lazy, instead of me doing all the work for him. I am looking for a job, he is!
I pity Gene that he has such an ass for a son. Ray is 19 years old, has no idea what he wants to do or what he could do. Good for nothing comes to my mind. He have been acting beligerent to us, defensive, reminding us that he is old enough and he KNOWS he is doing, yeeeeeah riiiight, dumb ass! (Well, Excuuuuuse me, Ray, your telling us to butt out of your life, sure fine, if you want us to...the next time you screwed up, don't call us okay?! Call your stupid mother, you evil ungrateful child.)
In America, parents can't really "control" their children anymore. Children are considered old enough to make their own decisions. Obviously, this dummy can't make his own decisions, made poor judgements, he can't EVEN make his own bed, tidy up his own rental apartment, which he insisted on wanting to move out, even though he is NOT mentally ready emotional, worse still, not financially abled to.
At last, I found him a job at a grocery store and made him get up and go for the interview. He was cranky and agitated and told me off for making him get up so early, hey, 9 AM in the morning is EARLY? Golly, he thinks he is a Celebrity...or even a MODEL, who wont get out of bed unless $$$$$$$$ paid to him?
He worked for 3.5 months. All this time, his mother aka the Chief Creature, his partner in crime, has been calling him many times on the phone, in the middle of the night too. That boy can really sleep at 3am in the morning. Its no wonder he can't get up early the next day, and was cranky all the time.
Phone conversations continued with his mother must have made his decision to move out to an apartment near the college a month earlier. Whose idea? I think its hers. He listens to her faithfully and loyaly like a pet dog, you know what I mean. He worshipped the ground she walks on. He does not listen to his dad, Gene.
Gene tried to reason out with him, telling him that starting the summer semester may be too soon, and Ray is not ready to start, suggested that Ray should start the fall semester.
That boy, can be as stubborn as a mule, insisted and persisted on moving out to an apartment.
We helped him with the move, and paid for the Uhaul to get his stuff out. Cost up a whopping $1,500 plus the shoppings that we did for him, so that he could have ALL set up for him when he moves into the apartment. Gene unpacked and arrange his stuff while I helped to clean the kitchen, bathroom and toilet areas for him. All these things we have done for him, to him is never enough. He idolizes his mother more than his own Dad, when his mother does NOTHING for him. Do you see the logic here?
Love your mother is fine, but not till your love for her is blind.
Marie has done a lot of bad things in her life, including, having an affair for 6 months, with Gene's colleagues. She hurt a lot of people and she dont not care. I called that EVIL, like her son. These kind of people do it for their own agendas and whatever benefits them FIRST.
All these things that we did for him, not his mother...are NOT ENOUGH for him apparently.
Gosh, grrrrow up boy, for goodness sakes!!!
Guess WHO has to PAY for his RENT every month? Did you guessed correctly?
Gene and I. For his college, we bought him a 17" inch laptop complete, with carrying case, for him, we bought him some small appliances, like coffee maker, bread toaster, etc for him to use, PLUS, we have to buy him a month's worth of GROCERIES for him.
We even got him a queen sized bedroom suite with matching closets/wardrobe cabinets, etc...he still does not appreciate it at all. So, what gives???
And where is the mother? Is she not helping? When Gene called her and put her "on the speaker phone" He asked her whether she could chip in the expenses, after all, it is their eldest son, the first one going to college...she broke down and cried on the phone, yup, Mrs Crybaby...said that she has no money to help and she said it is Gene's JOB to do it and not hers.
What to f***!!!!! Gene's JOB, spilled into MY JOB, too??? Hey, I am not Ray biological mother, she is!!!! damn it, fat and evil b**** and adulteress!!!
We got a call from Robbie last night, informing us that he had passed his driving test, he is 16 years old now. Robbie did not want to make a big fuss about it. But, his mother, Marie, insisted that he informed us because she felt that it was "important news".
You know WHY, right? ---- *hint*..*hint* she WANTS us to PAY for Robbie's car and when he gets to college next, we have to PAY AGAIN!!!!
Tell me, I am a Christian, and she is one too...why is she SO EVIL, what type of Christian is she??? Then, what's the point of going to church??? EVIL person shold not pray, she goes but on three times a week, previously she went to church every evenings, dragging the 3 boys with her to pray. Every evenings, does she has a lot of sins she needs to confessed? Not, that woman does not do things like that, she thinks she is PERFECT in everyways, its other people's faults, never hers. Like Mother, Like Son.
Pray??? Why bother, she should be praying to the DEVIL then, not GOD. If only I could ask GOD, what did she prayed so hard about???? Definitely not just about herself, the Jerk and his kids' well being, not her own 3 boys - but mainly, prayed hard that Gene and I break up fast, that I dont give birth and that our marraige wont last long.
I bet you my bottom dollar that she did prayed on that also, and continues to do so on a regular basis.
GOD is great all the time, I know for sure, he wont want to hear her constantly cursing us, etc. She better not do that, if she did it, the saying goes: "What goes arounds, comes around" I believe in KARMA.
Tempted to give her a dressing down on what I personally think of her and her eldest son, then on second thought, I will hold on that thought for now, save it later...heheh
Let me accumulated all of these events/incidents caused by her and her son, and them I will let them have it all one big time.
Not now though, one fine day, I will eventually. Promise.:)
Saturday, September 20, 2008
Wedding Plans
We wanted a summer wedding, and we decided to get married on June 7th 2002. It was a small celebration, we did not want to make too much fuss nor spend too much money on an extravagant wedding, instead, we were married by the Justice of the Peace and two witnesses, in his office.
We did not want to bother the boys to come down, since we are not having a big wedding celebration. Marie told Gene that she is too busy on that day to drive the boys down (yeeeaaah riiiight, woman..grrrr)
We told them that we will see them in a week's time when they come and stay for the summer holidays.
Our neighbors, Ms Marge, a retired school teacher, and Mr Jimmy, a retired mechanic, were our witnessses, signed our marriage certificate. Ms Marge took pictures for us. They had another appointment on that day, they could not join us for dinner.
We had dinner at Outback Restaurant, just the two of us, as newly married couple:)
Robbie and Gene Jr. congratulated me. Ray mumbled "congrats" and quickly walked away.
Just when we all were about to sit down for dinner, the phone rang- guess who???
Bet you got it right?:) Yes, it was Marie on the phone. I happened to be seated near the phone and answered.
She has never ever call me by my name, I always address her by her name, do you see the difference here? There is NOTHING to COMPARE, and I know that I am SO MUCH BETTER THAN HER IN EVERY WAY...hmmm, that just shows whose got better manners and good family upbringing and values...lol
There was a pause on the phone - I guess she thought Gene was going to answer the phone, it seemed that she tried to think of what to say next to me...I know it was her on the phone, because we have ID caller...
"Hello Marie, are you still on the phone, can you hear me?" She finally answered -"Ummm, heeey, congratulations on your marriage to Gene, wow, I was so surprised Gene got married so fast...I thought your just one of his lady friends, you know dating on a casual basis...?"
Ah, I sensed the Green Eyed (actually her eyes are brown) Monster has emerged, and that was the Creature talking to me on the phone.
Marie thought that I would be *too stunned and loss for words* at her acidic comments.
Lo and Behold, I replied "Well, Marie, thanks for calling and for being so forthright with me about how you feel. There's absolutely nothing to be surprised about your ex-husband getting married to someone else, situations, events, happened for a valid reason."
That shut Marie up fast, and with a tight voice " I want to talk to Ray now" Gene and the boys heard what she said to me and my reply back at her, want to be mean, sure we can do that too, I had the speaker phone turned "ON" hahah...
Oooops, My bad? Sometimes, you just gotta do what you gotta do, makes sense?
More dramas to come...
We did not want to bother the boys to come down, since we are not having a big wedding celebration. Marie told Gene that she is too busy on that day to drive the boys down (yeeeaaah riiiight, woman..grrrr)
We told them that we will see them in a week's time when they come and stay for the summer holidays.
Our neighbors, Ms Marge, a retired school teacher, and Mr Jimmy, a retired mechanic, were our witnessses, signed our marriage certificate. Ms Marge took pictures for us. They had another appointment on that day, they could not join us for dinner.
We had dinner at Outback Restaurant, just the two of us, as newly married couple:)
Robbie and Gene Jr. congratulated me. Ray mumbled "congrats" and quickly walked away.
Just when we all were about to sit down for dinner, the phone rang- guess who???
Bet you got it right?:) Yes, it was Marie on the phone. I happened to be seated near the phone and answered.
She has never ever call me by my name, I always address her by her name, do you see the difference here? There is NOTHING to COMPARE, and I know that I am SO MUCH BETTER THAN HER IN EVERY WAY...hmmm, that just shows whose got better manners and good family upbringing and values...lol
There was a pause on the phone - I guess she thought Gene was going to answer the phone, it seemed that she tried to think of what to say next to me...I know it was her on the phone, because we have ID caller...
"Hello Marie, are you still on the phone, can you hear me?" She finally answered -"Ummm, heeey, congratulations on your marriage to Gene, wow, I was so surprised Gene got married so fast...I thought your just one of his lady friends, you know dating on a casual basis...?"
Ah, I sensed the Green Eyed (actually her eyes are brown) Monster has emerged, and that was the Creature talking to me on the phone.
Marie thought that I would be *too stunned and loss for words* at her acidic comments.
Lo and Behold, I replied "Well, Marie, thanks for calling and for being so forthright with me about how you feel. There's absolutely nothing to be surprised about your ex-husband getting married to someone else, situations, events, happened for a valid reason."
That shut Marie up fast, and with a tight voice " I want to talk to Ray now" Gene and the boys heard what she said to me and my reply back at her, want to be mean, sure we can do that too, I had the speaker phone turned "ON" hahah...
Oooops, My bad? Sometimes, you just gotta do what you gotta do, makes sense?
More dramas to come...
Friday, September 19, 2008
Continuing From Where We Stopped...
Six months passed slowly but surely...There was peace and the erie quietness of not "expecting" or "waiting for him to call me".. Not having me calling him...a sense of serenity but also, the sense of lonliness too...
He called right after the 6 months of "curfew" which I amusely nicknamed in my mind. I was at the bookstore, when he called from work. The different time zones could be pretty daunting at times for us. He called in his morning to my evening time.
We asked each other on how we were during the 6 months of absence. He thought about me a lot, poured himself into work, and at the same time, was busy with the boys coming over the spring and summer time, part of the summer time, the boys were in summer camp. He took a few weeks off, to spend time with them.
He said without me, it was very hard for him.
I told him that I thought about how he had been doing, about the boys, and what he did during his free time. I told him that I have been busy with work, hanging out with my best bud, Flo, for lunches, dinners, shoppings, just hanging out and relaxing.
We arrange for me to come spend Christmas and New Years again with him and his sons.
Things were a little bit different for once this time, however, Ray still kept his distance and I could see that he wanted to say something rude, but his Dad gave him that "quit it!" look, he sulked. Robbie and Gene Jr. were happy to see me, hugged me.
This time, THANK GOD, I was not in the mood to go with Gene to send the boys back to their mother and the Jerk, yuuup, because of these two "creatures" I chose to stayed behind and said my "good byes" at the apartment. Ray really did not want to give me a hug, his Dad insisted. Ray had no choice gave me a half heartedly hug and darted back quickly as if it was a repulsive thing to do.
Gene saw it, so did Robbie and Gene Jr. I think they were embarrased as to why Ray behaved this way towards me.
It really reflects on Marie, their mother, for NOT instilling respect and good manners, how could she do it as she herself is a poor role model to her boys!
She and the Jerk are the laziest scheming slimy human beings, their actual nicknames are "creatures" suited them perfectly:) I wont be surprised if Ray, especially Ray, because he is so very much like his mother, a mini Marie, and his two younger brothers learn these bad negative traits/habits from them.
I do believe that people CAN change and improve, but not Marie, The Jerk and Ray, to me, they are BEYOND REDEMPTION already! They dont want and dont like to change.
I must confessed that my latest visit has somewhat "unleashed the green eyed monster aka Marie" and "the problem child aka Ray" to think of something really quick to instigate or aggravate me. Hahaha...I am so very prepared BIG TIME this time...no worries, they want to play HARD BALL with me, then they shall GET HARD BALL from me...lol
You know, I find it pretty distasteful and very disgraceful that she resorted to all the despicable tactics and roping in her main acomplice, Ray, to help her to do her dirty deeds. She tries very hard to do a lot of bad mouthing, and she is a compulsive cry baby, an emotional blackmailer. Home Grown Drama Queen!!! Making it hard for the boys to get to know me better.
Wow - talk about down right stupidity and insecurities. Who wants to poach her sons??? No, thanks, not me!!!!! Getting along with them well and knowing them better is more than ENOUGH for me. Why is she SO WORRIED SICK ABOUT??? STUPID WOMAN!!! lol
More *memorable* events to follow after we have announced our marriage plans to the boys. Marie got to hear our news from Ray...hahah yeah, she was not happy, mad, obviously stunned that Gene married me!
How did I "knew" about this?? Well, Gene Jr told me quietly on the phone and made me promised to keep it a secret. They have never seen their mom reacting this way.
In my mind's eye to me thats ENTERTAINMENT, pricelesssss *snickering*
I know she hates me after our announcement, because she called the apartment and congratulated Gene, but not to me...heheh I yanked her chain!!!
He called right after the 6 months of "curfew" which I amusely nicknamed in my mind. I was at the bookstore, when he called from work. The different time zones could be pretty daunting at times for us. He called in his morning to my evening time.
We asked each other on how we were during the 6 months of absence. He thought about me a lot, poured himself into work, and at the same time, was busy with the boys coming over the spring and summer time, part of the summer time, the boys were in summer camp. He took a few weeks off, to spend time with them.
He said without me, it was very hard for him.
I told him that I thought about how he had been doing, about the boys, and what he did during his free time. I told him that I have been busy with work, hanging out with my best bud, Flo, for lunches, dinners, shoppings, just hanging out and relaxing.
We arrange for me to come spend Christmas and New Years again with him and his sons.
Things were a little bit different for once this time, however, Ray still kept his distance and I could see that he wanted to say something rude, but his Dad gave him that "quit it!" look, he sulked. Robbie and Gene Jr. were happy to see me, hugged me.
This time, THANK GOD, I was not in the mood to go with Gene to send the boys back to their mother and the Jerk, yuuup, because of these two "creatures" I chose to stayed behind and said my "good byes" at the apartment. Ray really did not want to give me a hug, his Dad insisted. Ray had no choice gave me a half heartedly hug and darted back quickly as if it was a repulsive thing to do.
Gene saw it, so did Robbie and Gene Jr. I think they were embarrased as to why Ray behaved this way towards me.
It really reflects on Marie, their mother, for NOT instilling respect and good manners, how could she do it as she herself is a poor role model to her boys!
She and the Jerk are the laziest scheming slimy human beings, their actual nicknames are "creatures" suited them perfectly:) I wont be surprised if Ray, especially Ray, because he is so very much like his mother, a mini Marie, and his two younger brothers learn these bad negative traits/habits from them.
I do believe that people CAN change and improve, but not Marie, The Jerk and Ray, to me, they are BEYOND REDEMPTION already! They dont want and dont like to change.
I must confessed that my latest visit has somewhat "unleashed the green eyed monster aka Marie" and "the problem child aka Ray" to think of something really quick to instigate or aggravate me. Hahaha...I am so very prepared BIG TIME this time...no worries, they want to play HARD BALL with me, then they shall GET HARD BALL from me...lol
You know, I find it pretty distasteful and very disgraceful that she resorted to all the despicable tactics and roping in her main acomplice, Ray, to help her to do her dirty deeds. She tries very hard to do a lot of bad mouthing, and she is a compulsive cry baby, an emotional blackmailer. Home Grown Drama Queen!!! Making it hard for the boys to get to know me better.
Wow - talk about down right stupidity and insecurities. Who wants to poach her sons??? No, thanks, not me!!!!! Getting along with them well and knowing them better is more than ENOUGH for me. Why is she SO WORRIED SICK ABOUT??? STUPID WOMAN!!! lol
More *memorable* events to follow after we have announced our marriage plans to the boys. Marie got to hear our news from Ray...hahah yeah, she was not happy, mad, obviously stunned that Gene married me!
How did I "knew" about this?? Well, Gene Jr told me quietly on the phone and made me promised to keep it a secret. They have never seen their mom reacting this way.
In my mind's eye to me thats ENTERTAINMENT, pricelesssss *snickering*
I know she hates me after our announcement, because she called the apartment and congratulated Gene, but not to me...heheh I yanked her chain!!!
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